Love Is A Decision.. (daw)

"I guarantee there'll be tough times. I guarantee there'll be one day when one or both of us would want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I do not ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life 'coz I know in my heart, you're the only one. "

Everybody was sighing as we watched Julia Roberts say these lines to Richard Gere in an unromantic setting-the balcony of a building in bustling New York City-in the movie Runaway Bride. A few scenes before that, it was Richard who said the same lines to Julia, likewise in an unromantic scenario, as they were talking about how people propose marriage. True enough, when we were teenagers it was a question which we loved to answer in slambooks.

It remains a topic that creates giggles and shrieks whenever friends talk about it. But does one really know what love is? We often mistake it for a crush, an infatuation or sometimes, even for the sheer joy in companionship. Sometimes, we think it's a feeling that we have when our hearts continue throbbing hard when we see that special person. Or when our knees start to shake and begin to weaken. But can anyone really define love? I don't think so, not even the ones who think they have felt it, or those who are feeling it, or those who hope they will feel it. Not even my philosophy teacher. Because love is not something that you don't define... it's a decision.

When you feel that you love one person, how can you tell that he or she won't feel the same way for the next person who comes along? Love is not a feeling, it's a decision. 'Coz, when it's a feeling, it is something that floats in theair, something you cannot touch or dare to comprehend.

Love, when it's a decision, makes it solid, makes it a commitment, makes it more lasting and more real. You can feel that you can be in love 20 million times in a day, but when you decide to be in love, you can only decide to be in love with one person once in your lifetime. You commit and you hold on to that decision. And when you turn your back on that decision, it means you were never in love in the first place.

Love should never fade. Because when it does, it means it's just an emotion. Love will never fade because a decision, once done, is something you stand up for and fight for-no matter what. What does "I love you" mean? Some peoplefind it easy to say the words but what really matter is being ready to stand up for it when you say those words. Are you ready to face all the consequences after saying those magical words?

If you can say "I love you" long after all the tough times, all the good times and after all the words that come hurting you, then the meaning of those words becomes real. Of course, I still believe in those words... but I myself am afraid to say them. I know there will come a time when I won't be afraid of those words coming out of my mouth. When I will be strong enough to fight for love again. And I can say the words "no matter what". Saying "I love you" is a major decision in one's life.

Those words should be sacred, should be kept in your heart until you are ready to commit, to fight for that feeling and to stand by those words. Is love a product of destiny? No, I believe there's no such thing as destiny. Thus, if love is a product of destiny, then you choose to love, you decide to love.

Your destiny is the path that you choose to take.

I guarantee that there will be tough times. Going back to the movieline that made everyone sigh: Yes, it is a decision to commit, it is a decision to love. And when you decide to love, you should realize that there will be tough times and there will come a time when you would want to get out.

And when you realize that love comes with all things good or bad, then you know what love really is.

But there is love...

Songs That turn Me On 2 - Butterfly

second installment of songs that make me feel funny..

hope somebody will tell me this lines, will sure make my legs shake and go crazy.. *lol*

the title also reminds me of the Venus Butterfly© technique in giving a cunnilingus..

"Butterfly"
Crazytown

Come my lady, come, come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, come, come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby

Such a sexy,sexy pretty little thing
Fierce nipple pierce you got me sprung with your tongue ring
And I ain't gonna lie cause your loving gets me high
So to keep you by my side there's nothing that I won't try
Butterflies in her eyes and looks to kill
Time is passing I'm asking could this be real
'Cause I can't sleep I can't hold still
The only thing I really know is she got sex appeal

I can feel too much is never enough
You're always there to lift me up
When these times get rough
I was lost now I'm found
Ever since you've been around
You're the women that I want
So, yo, I'm putting it down.

Come my lady, come, come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, you're my pretty baby,
I'll make your legs shake, you make me go crazy
Come my lady, come, come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, you're mypretty baby,
I'll make your legs shake, you make me go crazy

I don't deserve you
Unless it's some kind of hidden message
To show me life is precious then I guess it's true
But to tell truth, I really never knew 'til I met you...
See I was lost and confused, twisted and used up
Knew a better life existed but thought that I missed it
My lifestyle's sure wild I was living like a wild child
Trapped on a short leash paroled the police files
So, yo, what' s happening now?
I see the sun breaking down into dark clouds
And a vision of you standing out in a crowd.

So, Come my lady, come, come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, you're my pretty baby,
I'll make your legs shake, you make me go crazy
Come my lady, comec come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, you're my pretty baby,
I'll make your legs shake, you make me go crazy

Hey, sugar momma, come and dance with me
The smartest thing you ever did was take a chance with me
Whatever tickles your fancy, girl it's you like Sid and Nancy
So sexy....almost evil talkin' about butterflies in my head
I used to think that happy endings were only in the books I read
But you made me feel alive when I was almost dead
You filled that empty space with the love I used to chase
And as far as I can see it don't get better than this
So butterfly, here is a song and it's sealed with a
kiss and a thank you miss.

Come and dance with me, come and dance with me
Come and dance with me, so come and dance with me
Uhhhhh ha uhhh ha

Come my lady, come, come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, you're my pretty baby,
I'll make your legs shake, you make me go crazy
Come my lady, come come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, you're my pretty baby
I'll make your legs shake, you make me go crazy

Come my lady, come, come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, you're my pretty baby
I'll make your legs shake, you make me go crazy
Come my lady, come, come my lady
You're my butterfly, Sugarbaby
Come my lady, you're my pretty baby
I'll make your legs shake, you make me go crazy

Come and dance with me, come and dance with me
Come and dance with me, come and dance with me
Uhhhhhh ha uhhhhhh ha

Come and dance with me, come and dance with me
Come and dance with me, come and dance with me
Come and dance with me, come and dance with me
Come and dance with me, come and dance with me

How to do the Venus Butterfly©:

• tongue on the clitoris, licks it (preferrably tongue tornado)..
• index and middle finger inside the vagina tickling the frontal abdomen where the G-spot is located..
• ring finger caresses the anal opening, just outside, no need to insert it..
• free hand caresses either the navel or the breasts..

Eduardo Verastigui

this hottie's from J. Lo's "Ain't It Funny" mv wherein he played the role of a gypsy man.. he's the reason why I like the peasant/gypsy style..

The Dante Club by Matthew Pearl

took this quiz while in the middle of reading the said novel..very interesting historical fiction..mysterious and suspenseful..

The Dante's Inferno Test has banished you to the Seventh Level of Hell!
Here is how you matched up against all the levels:

Level	Score
Purgatory (Repenting Believers)	Very Low
Level 1 - Limbo (Virtuous Non-Believers)	Low
Level 2 (Lustful)	High
Level 3 (Gluttonous)	Very High
Level 4 (Prodigal and Avaricious)	Low
Level 5 (Wrathful and Gloomy)	Moderate
Level 6 - The City of Dis (Heretics)	Moderate
Level 7 (Violent)	Very High
Level 8- the Malebolge (Fraudulent, Malicious, Panderers)	High
Level 9 - Cocytus (Treacherous)	Moderate

Take the Dante's Inferno Hell Test

Beerdeh Pwesent

If 'tis your birthday and this is your present,

what will you do? How will you react?

*blink blink*